Let me ask you something, my friend. Have you ever stopped for a moment to reevaluate your life? Are you taking action to ACCOMPLISH your dreams??? Are you living the way you W-A-N-T to live? Are you influencing others? Or are you waking up every day with no hope, no joy and no feeling of being ALIVE?! Do you think that other people can dictate your way of living? Your time schedule, your weekends and everything else is ruled by your boss or your job? Do people keep telling you what you should do to have the normal life?
WHAT is “normal”? Why should the “normal” apply to you?
Why do people keep telling you how to lead your life?
How much do they truly know about you?
How much do they know about your inner conflicts, your problems, and your struggles?
Do you think the way you are living now, is “the only way to live” and you shouldn’t complain and fight?
Forget about that. Dreams exist to be chased, and being a pawn in other people’s hands shouldn’t be your plan. I will show you exactly WHY you should FIGHT until the END of your life to achieve your goals and your DREAM!!!! I will make you understand why you can’t live based on others, why following the same routine that everybody does don’t produce awesome people and I will show you that you are MUCH MORE than you think you are.
And HOW will I show you all of these things?
Just stay with me for 4 minutes. I created a focused post for you. For you, that don’t want to live the life that others impose you. For you, that don’t want to live anymore working your ass off without being properly rewarded. For you…that want to become….free.
MINDSET #1 – IMPROVE YOUR SKILLS AND USE IT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE BY HELPING PEOPLE
Every person has a skill to offer, no matter what person you can pick on the whole world. I met a LOT of homeless people who were ex-engineers, ex-teachers, ex-pastors and so forth. BELIEVE ME, my friend when I tell you that you have a gift from God. You have something to contribute to the world, you may just not know it yet.
Search yourself and try to discover your “hidden tools”, your skills that can help others.
These 3 simple questions can provide you a solid answer about yourself and your skills:
- 1. What do you enjoy LEARNING?
- 2. What are the top 3 subjects you usually talk about, with people?
- 3. When you imagine yourself giving a lecture, can you visualize what you are talking about?
You have N-A-T-U-R-A-L skills, skills that you were born with it that you can — and must — use it to improve other people’s lives! Are you a good writer? Improve your writing and teach people how to become a writer and make a difference. Are you a sports person? Push yourself, stand out and do good things with your success by helping others. Can you manage well? Seek to become a CEO of a company, become a great leader for your team and let NO ONE tell you that you can’t!
We just started.
This is just the first mindset. Keep going!
MINDSET #2 – INVEST A LOT OF MONEY ON YOURSELF TO BECOME A MORE AWESOME HUMAN BEING
Money is just a tool, remember that. There is no VALUE in money, except what it can provide you. People don’t want money when they chase it, they want the Freedom, they want the Power and they want Status. But…don’t you think ALL of these things are able to be in YOU if you invest money ON YOURSELF?!?!
THINK ABOUT IT!
If you can invest tons of money on yourself and become:
- Smarter (gain more knowledge)
- Faster (gain more speed)
- Stronger (gain more strength)
- Super-social (gain more social skills)
WHAT will be your VALUE?! Can 100 million pay you? You are simply priceless because your power to reach goals are incredible since you have all your abilities to the fullest. There is no loss on investing money in yourself. Never. Books, gym, clothes, seminars, courses etc.
People don’t actually pay attention to people who just have lots of money. They pay attention to people who can provide VALUE and help them out in life and help them achieve their own personal goals. That is the real value. If you have this value, if you have the knowledge at the top, the body at the top, your value is VERY HIGH!
Become Superman, because even if you lose all your money…you are still……AWESOME.
MINDSET #3 – FIGHT YOUR BIGGEST FEARS WITH EVERYTHING YOU GOT
EVERYBODY has fears. Everybody. Don’t weaken yourself just because you have a certain fear that keeps holding you back sometimes. And don’t blame yourself too much either, because that is N-O-R-M-A-L behavior! The difference is how you deal with fear and which are your actions towards it.
I will teach you something very basic that will blow your mind:
People who fight their own fears will create growth, and with growth, comes knowledge and experience, and with knowledge and experience comes….power. Power to take ACTION whenever it is necessary or whenever they want to. The Power that can make fear unreasonable and destroy it. It is this power, that you need to have a LIFE! So….do you still think fear makes….sense? Destroy fear. All of it.
MINDSET #4 – FAILURE IS JUST A BARRIER, NOT THE END OF THE LINE
You need to see failure as a step in the ladder to success, and not a sign to give up and forget about your dream and fulfill your life’s purpose. Failure tests a person’s FAITH, which is the second biggest power there is. The end of the line is death and if you believe in yourself, you must NOT quit!
Do you think people who live normal boring lives, that can buy everything they want are….successful? Is THAT your definition of success?!? The ability to buy things? To ride a nice car and show off?! A bank account with a lot of digits!?
What about making a DIFFERENCE and influence others and help a lot of people while you are on Earth? What about having a huge amount of human beings thanking you because of the difference you made for them?!
If you are living a life…that is being defined by other people, then…you may be failing at living.
MINDSET #5 – WORKING HARD + LIVING YOUR PASSIONS = GREATNESS
A man’s work enhances his reputation, makes him great, successful and therefore….awesome. The EASIEST way to achieve your personal goals in life is by working hard using your passions as a fuel! Why? Because you are only moved by your passions.
If you love training then you will go to the gym even when it’s raining right? Sometimes even when you are not feeling that well, or even when you are ILL!!! Why is that?! Because you have that internal hunger that insists in keep going and achieve the goals your own mind settles.
Your passions will keep you going, I promise you that. And surely, your dreams are only achieved by living your PASSIONS! That is what makes us A-L-I-V-E!!!!!!! If you were not made to work in a 9 to 5 job, you sho….no….you MUST think on a way to somehow GET OUT of that life because that is NOT living for YOU!
YOU don’t want to live that way, your boss wants you to live that way!
YOU don’t want to keep existing and making no difference whatsoever!
Find your passions and discover an awesome way to add hard work to it, in order to help people. Success will come once you do that.
MINDSET #6 – CREATE…A….LEGACY!!!!!!!
Become an important piece on the chessboard of life. There is no limits, no boundaries, besides the ones that your own mind defines. Talent is overrated, hard work is what made people successful! We have a lot of books and stories that prove that.
People who had no money, people who have almost nothing, people who came from GROUND ZERO have WON the game of life! They became their best version of themselves and made a difference — and a lot of money — in other people’s lives.
Lives….THAT is what matters!
The best version of yourself can SPREAD more joy than ever!
The best version of yourself can make money without that much effort!
The best version of yourself is always an influential being.
You don’t know it yet, but you are better, smarter and stronger that way.
The more you push yourself to live your dream, the better life becomes.
This was not a post to draw attention, this was a post to help you wake up.
Because we only have one life.