Here’s the truth about life: You can’t get to live your fate if you don’t put enough EFFORT trying to achieve it. When you born, you are just another player in the game and nothing more than that. You come to this world to EXECUTE SOMETHING which you are not still aware of. That’s the basics of how the game of life works.
And without asking for it, you are inserted into a world of traps, problems, and struggles. An everyday life where “battle” is the common word. Mind battles, financial battles and emotional battles. It’s like living at war and it seems like there’s no way out, except pushing yourself to fight everything you are facing.
Meet our ecosystem.
Which we call life at our first years of living.
But you FEEL like there’s so much more for you here on Earth because you have that deep instinct saying you are so much more, saying that you can take a lot more from life itself and that there are so many experiences to live. You feel that too, right?
All this powerful living is called DESTINY!
Destiny is, at its essence…
A life where you use your fullest potential to help others.
A life where you are happily married and you have your own family.
A life where financial freedom is a reality, and money is not a problem because you are working with what you love and what you are passionate about, thus making work not seem as work.
This is called Fate.
Destiny. What you were born for.
W-H-Y you aren’t living that life yet then? What’s wrong?!
I WILL TELL YOU WHAT’S WRONG. PAY ATTENTION HERE…
You may think is too hard to live life at the fullest and you might think your fate will never be real for you. You want to be one of the few that got to the point of living what you were born to live, be a success story and a great example for others, but you always seem….stuck.
It’s like…you do want all those things, but you can’t get near of them.
You may think:
Yes, you are right, but you feel like “life won’t be great. Not for me”. Correct?
You think you are different somehow and to live all your dreams like if it was a reality seems like a Matrix movie. You are far away from your Destiny.
What’s really wrong?
The short answer?
Because your current efforts to build your destiny is now…
The amount of EFFORT you are willing to invest for living your true life is not good enough. Not if you want to live what you WERE BORN to live. A fate doesn’t just fall into people’s lap. It doesn’t build on its own efforts and throw itself into your direction (at least there is no historical background that proves that).
Things that worth experiencing, like a great marriage, financial freedom and being able to help people around the globe for instance, are not easy handed to you. You must inject your own free time to make yourself better, smarter and wiser. Building something that matters is not simple.
And building something that matters takes T-I-M-E!
And that surely includes your FATE!
Look, you can’t experience financial freedom if you didn’t study enough about:
You can’t yet live a good marriage, if you don’t know how to:
- treat your spouse the right way
- manage and fix the flaws of your own personality
- think as a team
We are talking about REAL LIFE here and to achieve and LIVE a R-E-A-L life, you must put effort first to build it. You need to “work hard to play hard”. Understanding how this game works is a must for you! Having the desire to experience the life that was separated for you is not enough, because glueing all your ideas together is not an option, is a duty.
DO YOU FEEL WHAT WOULD BE AWESOME TO LIVE?
Every person has a dream which has passions attached to it. Maybe you enjoy painting, maybe you enjoy computer programming, maybe you enjoy coaching….doesn’t matter. You FEEL it inside of you. Maybe part of this passion involves a relationship, or teaching people.
That feeling is part of your fate. It’s not there by chance.
But you are the best painter? The best software engineer? The best coach?
The best version at yourself?
Destiny is not a joke! There are responsibilities that come along with it, my friend. Look, I’ll explain. When you find your fate, it will involve putting yourself into a place where you can influence people, change their way of thinking, make them take risks.
Living in your fate is serious stuff.
It’s where people hear you and pay attention to YOUR thoughts and words.
Every person who gets to live their fate, have a responsibility attached to it.
Think about it….
Maybe your destiny is to become a politician. Or maybe it is to become a doctor. Or an entrepreneur. You’ll have influentional power and you know that to be at that level, it’s impossible to do it WITHOUT PROPER EFFORT! You can’t and won’t become a politician, entrepreneur, doctor, fireman without investing enough time and money!
When you find out what you were born to do, the next obvious step is to wake up every single day and go after it! It will be easier because the power to achieve your goals will make you go much faster and you’ll look much more natural while doing it.
BUT………you’ll still need to P-U-S-H!
And make enough effort.
You will still need to P-U-S-H your boundaries.
Do what you must do so you can live what is separated for you.
And of course, it is not supposed to be easy.
Face it, there are no shortcuts. This is not The Matrix. (right?)
You can’t learn what you need to learn in seconds by just plugging something into your nape or bypass preparation with some 1-month course. It doesn’t work like that. LIFE doesn’t work like that!
People need experiences to grow, books to become smarter, friends to help them along the way, motivation, mentors and a lot more. It all sums up to effort and preparation.
If you want your destiny bad enough, if you want to live what you FEEL you should be living then you must outwork other people. You must outsmart other people. You must hear your inner voice and take things out of the paper, take more action, shutdown excuses and enter the game so you can leverage yourself to the next level.
Your fate won’t fall into your lap all by itself.
If you found out what you should be doing and never before you felt more CERTAIN about it, then do yourself a favor and GO DO IT!!!!! This is NOT something to ignore!!! Many people are still looking for the right area to work with, the right person to marry, the right place to live etc.
You can’t live your dream life without investing hours, days and YEARS building it.
Here, let me ask you something and I think you will understand me a little bit better:
QUESTION: SUPPOSE I GAVE YOU A PIECE OF LAND + A LOT OF HIGH-QUALITY CONSTRUCTION MATERIAL TO BUILD A HOUSE FOR YOURSELF LIKE THIS ONE BELOW….
Would you build it?
How much time would you invest on it? How many weekends would you sacrifice to live like this for the rest of your life? You know the house is yours, but it still in pieces. You have the tools, but the house is STILL in pieces.
You must build then, you must put enough effort into it. Because after you invest the right amount of time, you’ll be living in a place where you thought it would be impossible to live in. And the longer you go to that place and built it, the longer you get exposed to that “dream view”.
So here is the right equation for you:
Remember this equation.
In our minds nowadays, we want everything to happen to us and we want every guarantee possible from others, without having to make guarantees to ourselves. Is easy to complain about not living your destiny right? Is easy to say it is someone else’s fault that you are not succeeding. Is easy to say that your feelings of how you should be living don’t match your current reality.
But are you waking up at 4am to build your business?
Are you sacrificing yourself to maintain your relationship?
Are you studying hard enough to harvest later?
Are you trying to become a better person to later be able to live your fate?
Most people think fate will come eventually, by itself.
And when they find out that effort is part of the equation, they will feel sorry for their own existence.
They will ask at the end…
“Why no one gave me this information before?”
“So if I had put enough work and effort, I would have lived my destiny?”
Do you know or do you feel your destiny?
Great. You then know what you’ll become in the future. You may even feel how it would be to live in it right now. But that’s it. That just means you are aware of what you were born to do.
That doesn’t extinguish the fact that in order to live your fate, you must first prepare yourself. Build yourself. Study hard. Work hard. Become the best version you can be so you can make a difference later in the world.
You know now what is the best ending for you?
Do you FEEL it? Can you see yourself living on it?
But you are still in the middle! You need to REMEMBER that!
So what you are doing to reach to that end where all your potential is being unleashed to the world?
Do you want to pass along knowledge? Help people? Help companies? Make your spouse happier?
Become truly free?
You must first know how to do all that, study hard and understand things. ALL necessary things.
And then, you will have to bring all this knowledge into practice, bring it into reality. You’ll need to execute. And during execution, you will need to stay motivated!
You’ll have to PUSH!
You’ll give meaning to the word “effort” for yourself.
Because there will be a point where it’s not about knowledge or execution anymore, it will be only about heart and how much effort have you done to change things.
And only then, after going through all these steps, you’ll be able to step in your destiny. And it will worth it. Every piece of that long ride, will worth it. Because you’ll be stepping where you were born to step into.
Think about that.
So, push yourself to give birth to the real life that awaits you, my friend.