Every single person on this planet has suffered a hard time in his/her life. If a person is poor it’s likely that the main problem is all about money, if a person is rich probably the problem is about health or maybe relationships. But the fact is that EVERYBODY had their share of difficult times in life. There is NO single person that haven’t been through hard times on this planet.
But then you see those success stories.
You see that a certain amount of people seems to have NEVER being through hard times.
It seems that they were born special or maybe with good opportunities in life and you are doomed to failure. It seems that you fight and fight to reach NOWHERE and every single effort you make is thrown at the pit of losers.
Do you feel like this?
Then read some more 5 lines below and I will show you that you are actually SPECIAL
I will explain why hard times are necessary to forge a winner in life.
#1 HARD TIMES MAKES YOU UNDERSTAND OTHER PEOPLE
The world is a bunch of people who are fighting to become the best version of themselves. But people have problems, they have to struggle in life. Hard times are necessary for us in life because only after we pass by something similar or seeking the same things, we fully understand other people.
Hard times are necessary because we UNDERSTAND people around us.
If you are passing through hard times, some possible results you’ll get after the struggle are:
- You will connect easier with other people’s problems
- You will make money by helping other people pass through the same problem
- You will become motivated if someone else has overcome what we are passing
Hard times are necessary so the world can keep going, so we can help each other.
Really think about this, my friend. Does that make sense?
#2 HARD TIMES MAKES YOU UNDERSTAND HOW THE WORLD WORKS
The world we live in is a very tough place and becoming a winner needs some “training”. It’s necessary for us to pass through some hard times so we can know how to deal with our own life. Look, the truth is that it’s just like Rocky Balboa says on Rocky VI:
Forget about dreaming with a peaceful life. You will need to FIGHT THROUGH the hard times to achieve what you want. You will need to KEEP GOING and redirect the anger and the frustration of the difficult times up until you leave as a winner. There is no “easy” victory.
When you realize that something that was acquired easily has no value, you will realize that hard times are part of your history. The history of your success.
#3 HARD TIMES SHOW YOU THE REAL “TASTE” OF WINNING
Becoming a winner. Becoming successful. Becoming the ideal self. If you are reading this when you have NO money, NO friends, NO expectations and NO north in life to follow you need to know something friend:
There’s no excuse. There’s no self-pity. The ONLY thing you need to do is knowing (not thinking) that you ARE special and you are passing through these hard times because you are a source of motivation for people who are yet to come to this world.
Never forget this, never.
A WINNER IS FORGED, NOT CREATED
A winner is someone who has passed through every single obstacle in life even when the odds are totally against him. There are people without arms that paint, there are people who are poor that learn how to become rich, there are blind people who walk normally based on sounds and there are ascending winners like you.
A winner needs motivation, needs an understanding of life. And the only way to achieve that edge is through difficult times. That is why my friend, you are going through hard times right now.
DO NOT give up, because life is especially hard for leaders and winners.
And you are one, just believe in yourself.
See you next time.